The Muslim Woman And Her Husband

August 26, 2008

The Muslim Woman And Her Husband

Al-Haramain Foundation | Language: English | Format: PDF | Pages: 30 | Size: 1 MB
The Muslim Woman And Her Husband: The ideal Muslim woman and her relationship with her husband.

Contents:

- She does not disclose his secrets

- She encourages her husband to spend for the sake of Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa)

- Another way in which the true Muslim woman supports her husband is by encouraging him to spend and give charity for the sake of Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa), and not to waste money in extravagance and ostentatious purchases, as we see so many ignorant

- The alert Muslim woman always wants goodness and success for her husband, so she urges him to do good deeds, and to do more of them, because she believes that by doing this, she will increase her honor in this world and her reward in the next.

- One of the beautiful stories narrated about a woman’s encouraging her husband to spend for the sake of Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa) is the story of Umm al-Dahdah. When her husband came to her and told her that he had given in charity the garden in whi

- She helps him to obey Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa)

- One of the qualities of the good Muslim wife is that she helps her husband to obey Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa) in different ways, especially to stay up and pray at night (qiyaam al-layl). By doing this, she does him an immense favor, because she remi

- What a beautiful picture the Prophet -drew of the married couple helping one another to obey Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa) and do good deeds, and entering into the mercy of Allah (subhaanahu wa ‘ta’aalaa) together. This comes in the hadeeth narrated

- She fills his heart with joy

- She is cheerful and grateful when she meets him

- She shares his joys and sorrows

- She does not describe other women to him

In Islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman, in which each becomes, “permitted” to the other, and they begin the long journey of life in a spirit of love, cooperation, harmony and tolerance, where each feels at ease with the other, and finds tranquility, contentment and comfort in the company of the other. The Qur’an has described the relationship between men and women, which brings love, harmony, trust and compassion, in the most moving and eloquent terms:

(And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your [hearts]… (Noble Qur’an 30:21)

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Marriage And What People Say

August 25, 2008

Marriage And What People Say

Muhammad Saleh al-Munajjid | Language: English | Format: PDF | Pages: 04 | Size: 1 MB
Beloved Muslims! Do you not think that the spreading of impermissible acts necessitates that we re-evaluate the issue of marriage and facilitate it? corruption is approaching us from all directions, for it seems that what we had on the ground was not enough, that they (the disbelievers) have attacked us even from the skies (i.e., by means of satellites). They have disseminated evil everywhere, to the extent that teenagers are surely exposed to prohibitions through satellite channels and they may even watch pornography; they see naked or virtually nude women on television – what, then, is the solution?


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The Etiquettes Of Marriage & Wedding

August 25, 2008

The Etiquettes Of Marriage & Wedding

Shaykh Naseeruddin Albanii | Language: English | Format: PDF | Pages: 33 | Size: 1 MB
There are in Islam, certain etiquettes upon anyone who marries and wishes to consummate his marriage with his wife. Most Muslims today, even those who exert themselves in Islamic worship, have either neglected or become totally ignorant of these Islamic etiquettes. Therefore, I decided to write this beneficial treatise clearly explaining these issues on the occasion of marriage of someone dear to me. I hope that it will be an aid to him and to other believing brothers in carrying out what the Chief of the Messengers has ordained on the authority of the Lord of the Worlds. I have followed that by pointing out certain issues important to every one who marries, and with which many wives in particular have been tested.

Table of Contents

1. The Author’s introduction
2. Kindness toward you wife when you wish to enter into her
3. Placing your hand on your wife’s head and praying for her
4. The praying of husband and wife together
5. What to say at the time of making love
6. How he should come to her
7. The prohibition of sodomy
8. Making wudhuu’ between two acts with one’s wife
9. Bathing is perferable
10. The bathing of husband and wife together
11. Making wudhuu’ after sex and before sleeping
12. The ruling of this wudhuu’
13. Making tayammum in a state of janaba instead of wudhuu’
14. Bathing before sleeping is preferable
15. The prohibition of sex when she is menstruating
16. The penitence of one who has sex during menses
17. What is permissible when she is on her period
18. When it is allowed to resume sexual activity after menses
19. The lawfulness of coitus interruptus
20. It is preferable not to practise coitus interruptus
21. What the two spouses should intend with their marriage
22. What he should do the morning after his wedding night
23. The house must have a place for bathing
24. The prohibition of spreading bedroom secrets
25. The obligation of a wedding feast
26. The sunnah of a wedding feast
27. Wedding feasts can be given with other than meat
28. Participation of the wealthy in the feast with their wealth

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The Etiquettes Of Marriage And Wedding

August 21, 2008

TITLE : The Etiquettes Of Marriage And Wedding

AUTHOR : Shaik Nasiruddin Albanee

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The Etiquettes Of Marriage And Wedding

The Etiquettes Of Marriage And Wedding

There are in Islaam certain etiquettes to be followed by anyone who marries and wishes to consummate his marriage with his wife. Most Muslims today, even those who exert themselves in Islamic worship, have either neglected or become totally ignorant of these Islamic etiquettes. Therefore, I decided to write this beneficial treatise clearly explaining these issues on the occasion of marriage of someone dear to me.